Merry merry christmas, lonely lonely christmas
Many things happen each year but at the end of every year this thought always creeps into my mind...
yet another year gone, yet another lonely christmas without a gf.
Merry merry christmas to all, in addition, lonely lonely christmas to all like me: you're not alone! (though you are)
yet another year gone, yet another lonely christmas without a gf.
Merry merry christmas to all, in addition, lonely lonely christmas to all like me: you're not alone! (though you are)
posted by Unknown at 7:42 AM
18 Comments:
wah lauz... we're going out with you for x'mas lehz! like that still complain! Hmph!
haiyo... doesnt mean go out with friends wun feel lonely one... its loneliness on a deeper level, not just on the surface.
the heck with having gfs or not!!
Wait, you did mean GIRLfriend, right? Hahaha...
i know a friend who has a gf, and he's also staying home alone on xmas day, so go figure.
anyway, it's much better to wait till the right person pops along, rather than to rush out and grab one for the sake of having one - that definitely won't solve the loneliness.
if you don't subscribe to this point of view, then sentosa's beaches are always open. lots of adolescent females over there who are so desperate for affection that they'll grab the first person who treats them better than usual.
...Why did you never tell me that -_- Must remember to head down to Sentosa...
Anyway, it's not like EVEN if you have a gf, you won't be lonely. -_-
mb: yes, its GIRLFRIEND... not funny... -_-''
ckoo: i nv said having just ANY gf would ease loneliness. And you know i'm not the type to rush to get some girl for the sake of getting one dont you -_-
And yes i wont be lonely if i have a gf cos if i have a gf then she's not going to be just "any" girlfriend, but rather "the" girlfriend, or at least thats what i would think.
And i think loneliness from having no friends, is different from loneliness with friends but without a lover.
xr: well, then there's nothing you can do until The One spawns.
just make sure you actually go out and do something to make her yours when she does spawn.
to the anonymous stuffed animal: i thought it was like... common knowledge.
"the" girlfriend eh?
Either you are looking for the perfect one, or the perfect one isn't yours yet... *speculate speculate*
hehe.. you don't look for "the girlfriend" you just fall in love =) And ya.. we are forever lonely.. attached or not.. it's just a personality thing.. some people tend to feel less lonely than others.
Angie
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This must be a world-wide phenomenon that afflicts guys.
Lots of them seem to feel lonely without gfs. Ahh, it must be the wonderful christmas sprit that brings this out in people.
What to do...Stay far away from warm, fuzzy romance flicks. Find a grilfriend. Read terrible romance books that in no way prepare you for real life. Believe.
Happy New Year. BITE.
Sheryl
and this topic is officially the topic with the most comments to date on my blog!
congrats! the world is officially interested in the status of your romantic aspirations.
and yeah, romance movies, all sweet and touching as they may be, are definitely NOT what real life is like, because real life sucks. the movies are still nice to watch though, as a form of escape from the crappiness that is real life.
let's see how many comments we can boost this post to before it dies off.
love in shows? depends on what movie/drama etc. too unfair to generalize like that i think. Some scenarios in movies may be possible in real life all the same.
if you expect romance to turn out like those mtvs that always show when you're singing your songs in Diamond Dust, you're sadly mistaken. -_-
And besides, to be honest, what makes you think you're even ready for a gf right now? Wouldn't you just drag your gf down with your sad angst and emo loneliness?
wth... when did i ever say love was like mtvs in diamond dust. I know i'm not a genius or anything but i'm not stupid to that extent...
ready? i have no idea. Who can be totally sure anyway. And what do you mean by "drag your gf down with your sad angst and emo loneliness?"... in what way would that happen, be more specific?
nah, i actually think that won't happen. i'm pretty sure that once he finds the girl all that angst and sadness will disappear.
I do not think his emo-ness and angst can disappear just like that -_-. Getting a gf isn't a cure you know.
The loneliness i experience comes from not having a gf ---> having a gf would solve it since it stems exactly from not having a gf....
Even though i might have friends out there whose company i enjoy, at the end of the day people part their ways and it is then which i am reminded that i am still alone. But in my opinion, with a gf, or maybe a very very good friend, its different. Even if i dont see her everyday, or after parting at the end of the day, knowing that someone out there is thinking about you, that you mean something special to the person, and vice versa since i feel the same way, is exactly the solution to loneliness that i feel.
Anyway... i think this topic shld be closed. All this talk on paper might not be accurate in real life... plus there are complications that i cannot and do not wish to disclose in this blog. So lets just leave it at this.
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